Skip to main content

Men and tyres

Ok, so I am not usually one to dish my husband, only when it comes to certain small irritating matters such as replacing the tyres on my car.


A couple of days ago, Gerhard tells me that I need to go and replace
the tyres on my car.  Today he phones and asks if I still remember that I need to replace the tyres on my car.


Now inbetween all of this, I remember a conversation where he told me that one, I need to get the same tyres as the ones I currently have, two that they cost in the region of R1000 per tyre and three that I need to go to either Tiger Wheel and Tyre or another place (I cannot remember the name). 


So, today after already taken time off work to take my sick child to the doctor, I also decide, let me do this, let me make my husband happy.  So I go to Tiger Wheel and Tyre, the one I can remember.  The nice man quotes me R4 100 all inclusive as they also need to balance and align.  I text my husband, he immediately replies to tell me I must not pay more than R930 per tyre all inclusive, I reply saying I will be paying just over R4000.  And this is where the fun starts.


Gerhard phones me saying he will sort this out as these people are once again trying to screw me over because I am female.  I say, well its pretty much the same is it not.  He says that if I walk into a store and a dress costs R400, will I give them R500?  I say of course not, but in this instance, they clearly told me that the dress cost R500, so how can I expect to pay R400.  And so we carry on.


This conversation always ends with me saying ok, good bye and leaving it at that.  I know he is fuming at the other end because I refuse to take up his cause for the couple of rands.  It also involves me at some point telling him that he can put tyres on cars, take bakkies for service, put diesel in our cars from here on, because amazingly enough with me being so stupid when it comes to these things, I still always end up doing the actual transactions.


So this conversation will be forgotten until a couple of months down the line, when the windscreen wiper blades need replacing, the car needs an oil filter changed or whatever.


Men, argghhhh!

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Leopard print boots

Liam recently insisted on getting a new pair of sneakers, he no longer wants the velcro kind, he wants proper shoe laces.  We went to Woollies on Sunday, the three of us, within minutes Liam found the perfect pair of shoes.  Army camo...high top sneakers no less.  Happiness.  Keeping these shoe laced tied when you are almost five and unable to tie them, well lets just say that that is a story for another day, when you have more time... Luka in this time found her own shoes...she walked past pink, blue, purple, black and brown boots - she walked past Wellingtons, past pumps, sneakers, all lovely in their own right, straight to a pair of boots .  Not just any boots, these are boots made from leopard print fabric, covered in glitter, pink trim, fur lined, imagine the blingest boots on the planet, now multiply your wildest thoughts with about 100 and you may just have some insights into what I am talking about. She put on said boots, probably two sizes too big, ...

On the eve of my first protest

It is the eve of my first ever protest about anything really.  I am a little scared, a little excited, a little apprehensive but extremely motivated.  For those not following South African politics, our President last week fired our honest Minister of Finance and the South African economy took a tumble and we were downgraded to junk status by ratings agencies. Economic and political uncertainty ensued all because of one man’s greed and corruption.  Junk status has dire implications for our country and as always the people who will be most affected are the poorest of the poor.  Interest rates will rise, so will inflation and food prices, jobs will be lost, the list of horrible things goes on. Ordinary South Africans have now had enough and for the first time ever people from all walks of life are united behind a common cause, to save South Africa.  I have never in my 40 years on this earth been moved by any cause, not enough to actually take...

Indulgence

My husband jokingly refers to my (numerous) sessions at the spa as my hobby.  He says that if going to the spa was a sport, I would have national colours, I would probably even qualify for the Olympics.  We all have a vice I say, golf for Gerhard, the spa for me, drinking fine wines, smoking cigars, the list goes on.   So this week Friday I am off to the spa with the girls and I cannot wait, I have no preference - I can spa alone or in groups, day, night, its all the same to me.  Upmarket, start-up, once again no preference.  Serious spa where you sip mineral water and eat lemon slices to detox, bliss, more commercial versions where you sip champagne in the spa bath and eat chocolates at the conclusion, any one will do.  I am if you will a spa groupie, anywhere, anytime, anyway... Poor Gerhard though, his hobby is golf, that must be done in conjunction with similarly minded people, mostly men.  They all need to agree on the course, the time, and ...