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Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened

Sometimes I wish I could freeze time, just for a bit, just to savour the here and now without thinking about yesterday, tomorrow, and the rest, but just to be happy in the now.

We have reached a happy space Luka wise, who would have thought that the little girl that cried and screamed for 10 whole weeks would become such an utter cutie, she literally rules the house with that toothless smile of hers.

And Liam, he loves Luka, he gives her a dummy when she needs it (and takes a suck or two himself on the sly when he thinks we are not looking), a cuddle every morning and reads her stories.

He loves his school, has loads of friends, so all in all, life is good.

So on days like today when I feel a tad melancholy, I remind myself of a quote by that giant of wisdom, Dr Seuss.

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."

And believe me, I am smiling, because it is all happening, happening too fast, but happening!

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